hidup penuh dgn drama
heard an amazing story from one of my podcasts i downloaded. i dunno why but i can really relate it to my life kat sini.there was once a boy. dia panas baran orgnya. selalu marah org lain. and his father notices his son yg panas baran ni and asks him to control his anger. what the father did was he asked his son to go and hammer a nail into the wooden wall in their backyard every time the son gets angry. and being an obedient son, he does that. one nail hammered each time he is angry. during the first day, he already hammered 40 nails into the wall!! fuyooo.. and he continues hammering each time he gets angry sampai papan tu dah penuh tak muat nk letak paku dah! (ni serious panas baran mendidih orgnya) so the boy pergi cari the father and told him about the wall tu. his father then asks him to remove all the nails. one nail removed for each time he apologizes or make amends with those he was angry with. after doing so, and all the nails removed and making resolutions with those he pour anger upon, the wooden wall was like as it was before. with no nails. but the father then ask the son to look closely at the wooden wall. and try to imagine the situation. if you yourself look at that wall, you will see small holes where those nails were. so the wall isn't as it was before.
so, basically when we get angry at someone, its like hammering the nail into that person, removing the nails is like apologizing but it will leave a 'hole', a 'scar' in that person you were angry with. hm, phm ke? well, i heard this story in english so i'm basically writing in here in my own words. haha! so, ingatla kawan2. bila kita marah kawan kita or org lain, remember our angry words or actions can leave a terrible effects on others
yeah, after dengar this podcast, mmg insaflah. okla it was actually a khutbah podcast. so mmg insaflah. kan best kalo kita selalu ingatkan ourselves, our friends and others with these kind of reminders. it may seem petty, tapi benda2 nilah kita selalu terlepas pandang. so jom reflect balik and make the best of each day walaupun each day ada drama or telenovela tersendiri~
ok, i think my post ni cam takde kaitan dgn title ni. hahaha. hopefully i did share something with you guys. =)
posted by || intan || @ 5:11:00 PM
7 Comments:
Salam..
adeh, berdebar2 sy hendak memulakan pembacaan entry ni..seram dan gerun dgn tajuk nya..haha..intan phm kot, almaklumlah, hidup ini penuh dengan drama dan telenovela..=P yup, btul2..wpun dh mntak maaf atas kesalahan kte kt seseorang tu, kesan nya still ada..n xtau bila bole ilang..spt yg pernah tertulis di blog sy sblum ni, 'Tangan yang tercedera ada ubatnya..ttp hati yg ter’cedera’ lukanya belum tentu boleh smbuh seperti sediakala'..jd, marilah kte sma2 berusaha menjaga hati org lain..insya-Allah hati kte juga akan turut terjaga..=D
P/s: nice entry..jom guling2 baca endo smbil menyaksikan sy berputar2 baca math..haha~
wow.i know kan gf, that i shud terasa with ur post ini, that myb i shud have just stuck to 'sorry', tp yeah its true,i was the wall. and wat that wall did was break down lawan paku pulak..
xpe la,bnda dah jd,td i usha tiket balik msia, and its 750euro,wow.teringin ssgt nk balik!
hehe, post ni takde nk ditujukan kpd specific person. nk tuju kat semua and myself. haha, tak sangka kan our anger has potential meninggalkan kesan kat org lain
adah, tak dpt bygkan saya berguling2 dan awak berputar2. mesti ilani, muni and adah igt kita tak betul
aisyah, i think you are like a stone wall and you didn't let the paku in at all. aiyo, since bila i pandai berkias ni?? ok2, jgn terasa tau, jom amik iktibar dari cerita ni. hehe ;p
'adah, tak dpt bygkan saya berguling2 dan awak berputar2. mesti ilani, muni and ADAH igt kita tak betul'
intan, pembetulan..perkataan ADAH yang di'capital' kn itu sepatutnya digantikan dgn nama mkck nasi lemak..merajuk pulak dia nnti..hehe~ daa..
aiyo, hahaha! tertuka nama korang.
ok pembetulan kepada pengumuman
"adah, tak dpt bygkan saya berguling2 dan awak berputar2. mesti ilani, muni and liyana igt kita tak betul"
hahah, kebengongan melanda diri di kala musim exam.
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salam,
Makcik sume suda bengong? Guling banyak sangat tu. Cam tenggiling plak tu, x ley blah.
Hidup mmgkene ade drama, ujian Allah. Its how kite handle, kan? Macam pinggan yg pecah, mmg kita boleh selotape, tapi mesti dah x leh makan sup dalam tu, kan? Sbb tu, muamalah is a delicate matter.
Aisyah, ngan sume mende dia terasa. haha...bgusla, nipun tujuan post Intan, kasi sume org terasa = tahu kita kat mana. Thus, kita tahunk betulkan diri. terasa is a good thing, but then again, it depends on howwe handle. Nak amik pendapat tu, nk berubah atau brush it away.
We can forgive but forgetting will be hard. Like Aisyah said, someday when we get older, they are things that we will laugh about, together. Well, that is a thing that may.
hoho, i totally agree dgn muni! thanks muni.
hm, cam nk amek kesempatan sini, if i ever hurt anyone in any way ( which mmg ada lah, no denying that) maafkan intan and harap kita semua belajar dari kesilapan masing2
peace! =)
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