unspoken thoughts

sekadar menenangkan diri. janganlah kamu marah

sape kat dunia ni yang tak pernah marah? haha, mmg fitrah kita sbg manusia untuk berperasaan. suka atau tak suka, mmg kita terpaksa menerima hakikat. and selalu apabila kita tak suka tu, kita akan marah. saya bukanlah dari golongan yang jarang marah. oh tidak. tapi alhamdulilah sejak akhir2 ni saya kurang marah tapi saya lebih menangis. menangis bila benda yang saya tak suka terjadi. rasa cam jadi budak kecik balik. selalunya, semakin kita tua, kita tak akan mudah nangis. cane tu?

dari koleksi 40 hadith:

Abu Hurairah, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that a man said to the Prophet, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam:

"Advise me! "The Prophet said, "Do not become angry and furious." The man asked (the same) again and again, and the Prophet said in each case, "Do not become angry and furious."

[Al-Bukhari; Vol. 8 No. 137]

kalau kita tgk sini, rasulullah saw sgt menekankan agar kita jgn marah. setiap kali nasihat diminta, mmg ditekankan setiap kali agar jangan marah. ok, saya bukan jenis yang alim as some people might say. but i'm someone with my own opinions and views which are readily supported or crititized (hey, critiscm is a way of learning kan?) actually, at the moment of typing this, i'm kinda bengang at the moment. so nak cuba tenang dan mengingatkan diri dan sume yg baca this entry.

nak read more on how to control your anger? based on this hadith. KLIK DI SINI!

so marilah sama2 kita jgn pendam perasaan marah. hadis di atas sgt2 membuka mata saya. dan saya harap ia dapat membuka mata anda semua juga. blog ini hanyalah semata mata menyatakan perasaan, thoughts and happenings in my life yang saya mungkin lebih jelas terangkan dalam bentuk penulisan.

A strong person is not the person who throws his adversaries to the ground. A strong person is the person who contains himself when he is angry

I ask you O Allah, for truthful speech during times of pleasure and anger. AMEEN

posted by || intan || @ 10:56:00 AM